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A Deer, a Superbowl Party, and HoF

Krohe
Well, well, well--my car is again in the shop. Why, you ask? Why was my car in the shop AGAIN? Because it is smashed, and once again not my fault. Three times in six months:
--once in a parking lot, an elderly gentleman thought he could get between my car and the row of parked cars on my right. He couldn't.
--once when my son had it, another gentleman thought it would be a good idea to go around my son already in the process of making a turn instead of stopping and waiting for him to finish.
--and now, last Saturday, while on our way for our weekly date-night at our favorite restaurant, a car coming the opposite way hit a deer that then came flying into my car (husband driving) and demolished the front end. I have no idea how I'm still in one piece. That thing came sailing up my windshield--there is actually fur embedded in the paint up the side--and did not come through. I'd be dead, I think; or at least seriously injured.

The deer is dead though. We didn't kill it, but added insult to injury, poor thing. My husband, who feeds the deer (because they were eating the bird food; now they eat the bird food AND the deer feed!) will not consider it was one of his "baby deer*."

Frank: I don't think it was one of mine.
Me: What makes you say that?
Frank: Because I don't want it to be.

Poor darling. It was less than a quarter mile from our house. It probably was one of "his." And he's seen one fewer baby-deer the last couple of nights, so...yeah...

We had a Superbowl Party yesterday. Lots of fun. We don't get together with our friends enough these days, so it's nice to see them. We've been a possie for nearly 20 years now. All the kids are growing up and/or gone. I have a feeling we'll be spending more time together in the years to come.


Last, I'm up over on Heroines Of Fantasy. Last month, I wrote about the "not so nice girl." This month, (Not So) Happily Ever After. I'd love to see what you have to say!


*They are not babies. Frank calls everything "baby ___." We have baby-fat-squirrels, baby frogs, baby possum, baby raccoon, baby doves...anything he feeds is "baby." My man is crazy, but he sure is cute.

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vaughan_stanger
Feb. 4th, 2013 05:33 pm (UTC)
Glad you're all okay.
bogwitch64
Feb. 4th, 2013 06:10 pm (UTC)
Thank you, Vaughan. I have been thinking about you all weekend! Hope all is well.
vaughan_stanger
Feb. 4th, 2013 06:23 pm (UTC)
Yes, I'm fine.
mtlawson
Feb. 4th, 2013 05:45 pm (UTC)
We only rarely get deer in our yard, at least that we have proof of, anyway. But we do get birds and squirrels.

And the occasional hawk, which tends to use our bird feeders as 'raptor fast food'.
mtlawson
Feb. 4th, 2013 05:45 pm (UTC)
Damn it, hit the button too soon.

Anyway, I'm glad that the both of you are okay, and that your car will survive.
bogwitch64
Feb. 4th, 2013 06:10 pm (UTC)
Thanks, Mike. :)

In the old house, I used to just toss birdfeed out on the deck. It was in an enclosed poor yard, so the deer weren't a problem. The hawks, however, did indeed see it as "raptor fast food." More than once I got to see close up how deadly those things can be! Gorgeous creatures.
queenoftheskies
Feb. 4th, 2013 06:05 pm (UTC)
I'm like your husband; I call everything "baby", too. ::HUGS:: to him. I know how I'd feel if I was in his shoes.

::HUGS:: I am so thankful you're both okay. Sorry about your car. Can it be repaired?
bogwitch64
Feb. 4th, 2013 06:09 pm (UTC)
Thanks, love. I think my car is repairable--it all depends upon if it's worth more than the cost of fixing. I sure hope they don't "total" it. :(
readthisandweep
Feb. 4th, 2013 06:12 pm (UTC)
Wow! So glad you are both safe. Does your insurance cover flying deer?

Several years ago an owl hit my windscreen as I was driving at about 45 miles an hour. It thumped against the screen but then glanced off & in my rear view mirror I saw it swoop up & fly away. Luckily, I was on a straight road with no other traffic around. I was able to brake & slow to a halt; take some breaths. I remember thinking, Someone sure wants to tell me something. Later, I found a feather under the wiper.

But a DEER? That is scary. And distressing because it died. Poor baby indeed...
bogwitch64
Feb. 4th, 2013 06:14 pm (UTC)
I sure hope you kept that feather!

The insurance does cover it, fortunately. UNfortunately, we have a $1000 deductible. Zoinks!
readthisandweep
Feb. 4th, 2013 06:21 pm (UTC)
Hmm... that's high...
Of course I kept it... ;)
maryjdal
Feb. 4th, 2013 06:48 pm (UTC)
Glad you're okay. it is distressing seeing a deer or any animal getting hit but it happens. All you can really hope for is that it's quick for them. And that you walk away unhurt.
bogwitch64
Feb. 4th, 2013 06:50 pm (UTC)
We saw her at the side of the road when we went out again (yes, we still went out for dinner! We are pitiless creatures.) right where she was hit. I was glad to see she didn't suffer, or at least didn't suffer long. Poor babydeer. My husband is devastated.
wldhrsjen3
Feb. 4th, 2013 07:20 pm (UTC)
I'm so glad you guys weren't hurt, but my heart aches for your husband. :{
msstacy13
Feb. 4th, 2013 07:24 pm (UTC)
As always,
should you or any of your IM force be caught or killed,
the Secretary will disavow any knowledge of your actions
.

msstacy13
Feb. 4th, 2013 07:44 pm (UTC)
"Not one of our deer, no."
endlessrarities
Feb. 4th, 2013 07:45 pm (UTC)
That's a damned shame about the deer - but you're lucky you got out of it unscathed. If it had gone through the windscreen it doesn't bear thinking about...
writerjenn
Feb. 5th, 2013 12:33 am (UTC)
I agree with you that romances don't need a happy ending. But I'm glad your deer story ended happily--for you, if not for the deer!
seachanges
Feb. 5th, 2013 04:38 am (UTC)
Augh! Hitting a deer is scary. So glad y'all are okay.
bogwitch64
Feb. 5th, 2013 03:39 pm (UTC)
All I saw was something flying across my windshield. I thought it was a branch! Thanks, love.
peadarog
Feb. 5th, 2013 03:28 pm (UTC)
You may find this song particularly appropriate. Make sure you listen as far as the chorus.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l2vEtfyveeY


Main thing: thank goodness you're all OK!!!!

Edited at 2013-02-05 03:28 pm (UTC)
bogwitch64
Feb. 5th, 2013 03:38 pm (UTC)
Ha! I know the song! Thanks, Peadar. Perfect--unfortunately. Wah!

Yeah, glad to be at my computer up in my loft instead of in the hospital. Poor deer can't say the same though. ;)
peadarog
Feb. 5th, 2013 03:44 pm (UTC)
Yes, the poor deer :(
lorrainemt
Feb. 6th, 2013 12:49 am (UTC)
Aw, sorry to hear about the deer. Bet it shook you up to have such a big animal just about land in your lap. I'm sure glad it didn't!
bogwitch64
Feb. 6th, 2013 01:00 am (UTC)
It is scary in retrospect. At the time, I thought it was a branch or something. Thanks, love!
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